When I first became a published author, my DH was my first
and only critique partner. Then I realized a couple of things. First, while his
input was usually right on—and it took me a while to accept that—he was reader,
not a writer. And that’s what I needed—someone who could tell me “This part
drags” or “You had a pov shift here.” All that stuff another writer sees and
points out (Very nicely, of course. No “This sucks” allowed.)
So if you’re on the verge of becoming published, find
yourself a critique partner or two. I think you’ll find the time you spend
revising based on solid criticism well worth it. Hang your ego on the porch and
remember, the baby can always use a bit of spit and polish to really shine.